![]() When they may password protect their laptop or computer to keep out suspicious eyes.When your spouse will not allow you access to their computer or they suddenly shut down the computer when you walk into the room.Excessive internet usage, especially late at night, is a red flag. When they stay up to “work” or “play a game” on the computer after you go to bed.When your spouse avoids social events with you, as if they want to cover up that they are with you.When your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is “touchy” and easily moved to anger.When your spouse’s co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence, because either they know about the afair or have heard horror stories to justify it.When your mutual friends start acting strangely toward you, because they either know about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible spouse you are.When he or she has worn the same fragrance for years, and suddenly they are wearing something new and wearing MUCH more than usual.When your spouse’s clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave used by the opposite sex.When they arrive home and head straight into the shower or bath, and they work an office job.When he or she leaves the house in the morning smelling like their usual fragrance and returns in the evening smelling like something else.When you find condoms in the car or in his pockets, and you are on the pill.When you find birth-control pills in the medicine cabinet, and you’ve had a vasectomy -OR.When your husband or wife begins to intentionally look at or flirt with the opposite sex when in the past, this is something they would not have done.When they encourage you to have a social life and go places out of town, and it seems like they’re trying to get you “out of the house.”.When your spouse suddenly starts completely ignoring you and not listening to what you are saying -OR- when they suddenly begin to treat you extremely nicely…more so than usual.When your wife sleeps with her purse by the bed, or your husband sneaks out of the house.When their behavior just doesn’t add up.When they appears distant, show a lack of interest, or develop an unexplained aloofness that wasn’t there before.When your mate becomes suddenly forgetful and you have to tell him/her everything several times their thoughts are obviously elsewhere.When they break their established routine at work and home for no apparent or logical reason erratic behavior.This also goes for jewelry you might have purchased for them and you catch them not wearing it when they go out when usually they wear it at all time. When your partner shows up without their wedding ring or suddenly stops wearing it and makes lame excuses as to why.Sign 2–Behavior That Is Not Their Usual Character: You find intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that are gifts for someone else and have not been given to you.Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.Your cheating husband or wife stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.The telltale sign of a cheating spouse? Having to ask that question in the first place.When you see lipstick on your husband’s shirt or strange hairs on their clothing or in the car. ![]() ![]() But when you observe several, or maybe MOST, of these behaviors, your marriage or relationship may be in big trouble! Again, let me reiterate that these behaviors are only indicators of an affair. I have learned that nothing is absolute, the behaviors I describe are only indicators of a cheating spouse and are not absolutes! If your spouse has one or two of these behaviors, and there is a legitimate reason and a mutual agreement (such as you two talk about it and agree to try to lose weight…and they’ve gone a little obsessive about it), these signs do NOT prove infidelity. Still there’s that nagging doubt in my mind.Īs a New Jersey Private Investigator investigating numerous cases of Infidelity I have been able to put together some of the signs of Infidelity, the signals that your spouse may be cheating. Then again there was that thing last week, when my spouse brought it up, she twisted it around as if I were the one with the jealousy issue! “I was just being paranoid–I was crazy for thinking like that!” she said. ![]() Other people have affairs, not us what we have is special. Many times the victims of infidelity get a “Gut Feeling Or Instinct,” they may have suspected for days, maybe weeks, that something is wrong or off between them and their spouse, and they begin to wonder if maybe it might be…. I really feel for these victims of infidelity that are in or are in a relationship where the partner is unfaithful. As a licensed New Jersey Private Investigator I have spoken with many clients who suspected their husband, wife, girlfriend, boyfriend or partner is cheating on them. ![]()
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